My List and Your Challenge

So as promised... Here is my List... again, i challenge you all to come up with a detailed list... like DETAILED... anything less than 10 is really unrealistic as to what you're looking for.... because let's face it, your standards can't be that low when it comes to finding someone to spend your life with... as well, I challenge and encourage you to offer to send your list to me or someone in Christ that you trust to hold on to it for you... i, or this person, will take the responsibility of keeping you accountable so you will find someone that has what you've looked for and that the feelings you have for the girl or guy is not strictly based on emotions but based on qualities that are important to you.... Christine has played this role for our fellowship many years back... probably from like highschool... and, i've formatted my comp so i lost it, i was able to recover it through Christine... i think it's a really good to keep each other in check like that.... it keeps you grounded so you wont settle for someone you're not willing to spend the rest of your life with...

Ideal Wife/Girlfriend

1. Christian
2. Optimistic
3. Likes children and wants to have children of our own if biologically possible
4. Independent and dependent at the same time
5. Compromiser
6. Outdoorsy
7. Enjoys sports
8. Enjoys spending time with me
9. Supportive
10. Argues with me
11. Makes up with me after argument
12. Speaks her mind
13. Opinionated
14. Creative
15. Gets along with my friends
16. Drives me to become a better person all around
17. Shares ups and downs with me
18. Someone I can share ups and downs with
19. Doesn’t mind my shortness or is shorter than me
20. Likes and gets along with my parents
21. Is liked by my parents
22. I get along with her family
23. Likes traveling
24. Share chores with me
25. 100% Trust b/t us
26. Is not materialistic
27. Possess the Fruits of the Spirit
28. Puts up with me
29. Puts up with my corniness
30. Puts up with my stupidity
31. Laugh at my dumb jokes
32. Have stupid moments with me
33. Have nice hands
34. Have same music taste as me
35. Enjoy nature
36. Makes good use of my shoulder and presence
37. Looks at the future the same way as I do
38. Finally, accepts my blankie

-J Lo